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I have been into BDSM for a couple of years now, and although I love it, not all guys who get introduced to BDSM through escorts West Midland, take to it. It can be hard to tell if a guy is going to like it or not, so I always start off really slowly. Some gents think it is going to be like in the porno they have just seen straight away, but that is not the case. I think that most West Midland escorts who practise BDSM will introduce to the entire BDSM experience slowly.
Sure, I will greet you at the door in my sexy black PVC gear with my whip at the ready, but unless you are experienced with the entire West Midland escorts BDSM experience, I will not go over the top. BDSM is a very versatile art, and there are so many things that you can do with it. I tell all of the gents who seek out the West Midland escorts BDSM experience, that it is a journey and it is not going to happen overnight. If you push too push, it can even put you off.
How do you when somebody is ready to step things up to the next level? Is it a bit like golf?
Sometimes it can be. Some gents start to invest in their own gear and bring it with them to my West Midland escorts dungeon. It is really a good sign and it means that they have accepted they enjoy BDSM. Believe it or not, some people have a hard time accepting that they enjoy BDSM, and it is not only the girls who work as West Midland outcall escorts BDSM mistresses who say that, others do as well.
When I first got into BDSM, I was a bit reluctant to say to myself that I really enjoyed it. It took me ages to sort of give myself the permission to enjoy BDSM. When I finally did, I got really into it and took it to the next level. My boyfriend at the time was really into, and he introduced me to BDSM in the right sort of way. I use the same technique when I meet a new date at escorts West Midland. We start slowly and very gradually step things up. Of course, the experienced gents that I meet are always ready to step things and enjoy new exciting BDSM pleasures. Do I learn from them? As a BDSM mistress, I am learning all of the time. That is part of the pleasure of BDSM.